I Don’t Love You Anymore: What to do when he says,
“I don’t love you anymore.” These simple words have the power to send the listener into shock, denial, and desperation. The obvious response is to ask oneself, “What can I do to win my partner back?” In I Don’t Love You Anymore, Dr. David Clarke provides just the battle plan needed. Contrary to what many relationship “experts” recommend-weak, passive plans that involve begging or romancing a spouse back-Clarke offers an approach that he calls guerilla love, which essentially turns the tables
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Tough Love – May not work, but can’t hurt,
The title of this book is what grabbed my attention – the five words nobody wants to hear. Inside, Dr Clarke gives hard hitting advice for dealing with an adulterous spouse, based on the tough love approach probably first advocated by Dr James Dobson. I found Dr Clarke’s book more direct in its advice than Dobson’s however. Clarke makes the victim realize that they have nothing to feel bad about, which if all that’s one is to get out of the book, isn’t a bad thing. Clarke hammers home again and again that nothing one spouse does to the other justifies the adulterer from the sinful action of adultery. Preach it, Dr Clarke.
I suspect the people that take Dr Clarke’s advice are not very likely to win their spouses back – but then they aren’t likely no matter what strategy they follow. So why not? Take Dr Clarke’s advice and start picking up the pieces and feel better about yourself. Don’t let your adultering spouse attempt to transfer their guilt onto you. Take charge! They flipped your world over, so flip it back!
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|great if you are new to the marriage failing,
I read this book when my husband had already moved out and is living with another women. For me, this book was too late but if you are in a place where your life partner is about to leave or has just left….this book is great. I am a Therapist and I highly recomend this book.
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|Straight Talk,
I purchased this book because my best friend’s husband told her that he wanted to break up (they had been married less than 1 year) and that he had had an affair. Probably because I’ve never been through the pain of having someone cheat on me, and because of our society’s acceptance of just getting a divorce if things don’t work out, I wasn’t even very shocked by his behavior. My initial reaction to his adultery was for her to be the one to try to win him back. After reading this book (which I sent to her) it made me very angry at what he had done. This book provides the biblical approach to dealing with something as devastating as a cheating spouse.
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